by Jocelyn Moya
Programs Assistant
Recently
my colleagues and I had the opportunity to travel through North and South
Carolina to connect with Elks scholars and to stop by a couple of Lodges. Have
you ever been to a family reunion? No? Me either. I come from a very small
family. I’d imagine family reunions are a lot like how I feel about this
trip—an opportunity to meet almost strangers who you’re somehow able to easily
relate with because you just so happen to be connected by a common thread—and
excessive amounts of good food. I guess that’s why they call it #ElksFamily,
huh?
While
the common thread for family reunions might be actual DNA, I think for our
#ElksFamily it’s a commitment to our community through service. You can see
this commitment when talking to just one Elks scholar, hearing them connect
with one another as a group, talking to Elks about why they’re involved in the
Lodge, and hearing about membership gains from grant projects.
#ElksFamily Meet-up |
I
first saw the spark of this connection when we stopped at UNC to visit with
some of the Elks scholars for coffee. I’d like to preface with the fact that
every time I meet an Elks scholar I am always impressed by their drive, ability
to dream big, and fit so much into their schedules. With big dreams and even
bigger schedules, some scholars were only able to stay for a few minutes,
others were there the whole time, and the rest fell somewhere in between. Even
in this casual coming and going environment the thing that stuck out to me was
how connected these scholars already were without knowing it! Two scholars
already knew one another through a camp they serve at, another was connected
through their campus community service group, and the list goes on. Every
single scholar at that table was involved in community service and that just
really struck me. The other thing that struck me about meeting up with scholars
at UNC, Duke, and Highpoint University was their campuses. North Carolina is
surely not lacking in higher education institutions with picturesque grounds!
Time for a biscuit break. |
While
the Lodges we visited may not have been the castle-like structures we saw on
the campuses, they were some of the biggest and most-unique Lodges I’ve ever
seen. Hickory Lodge No. 1654 used to house an old Chinese restaurant,
Morgantown Lodge No. 1852 still has prohibition rooms complete with false walls,
Asheville Lodge No. 608 reminded me of a Victorian era doll-house, and
Pendleton Lodge No. 2861 doesn’t even have a Lodge building, but we got to tour
their local Fire Department where they host their meetings! The outside of the
Lodges may not have matched but the people inside them all shared the same
heart of Elkdom and commitment to serving the community.
At Hickory a member mentioned, “My husband and I joined because of Helping Hands [the Lodge’s Impact Grant]. We've had a lot of members join because of the program."
See, I told you there were snacks. |
Then
just down the road at Morgantown the Exalted Ruler told us that the meetings with
bag stuffing beforehand, get the most membership turnout. At Asheville and
Pendleton, the spirit of community was present, too! The members at Pendleton
boast the highest rate of Lodge member involvement in grant projects. It
probably helps that they’re the second smallest Lodge in the state but it
doesn’t combat the fact that they all have such a strong commitment to serving
their community. Speaking of serving, each Lodge served us very well—with food
that is! Snacks, baked spaghetti, and even a potluck. I am eternally full,
thanks Carolinas!
Though
I’d love to go into a full recap of every second of our trip, I’m not sure
anyone has the time in the day to read that. If you’re still hungry for more trip
details check out the ScholarCip
MegaTrip Journal. Interested in perspectives from the other women on the
trip? Start by checking out Colleen’s blog and stay tuned for Chelsea’s and
Jenna’s to follow.
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